The Daily Southerner, Tarboro, NC

November 26, 2012

Give thanks on a daily basis

Editor and Publisher
John H. Walker

TARBORO — Al and Connie Hull were busy showing off grandbaby photos to Bernice and Mears Pitt on Black Friday morning while inside the garden center at Marrow Pitt, a mother and father shopped for a Christmas tree and their children scouted out gifts in the Fawn Shop.

 The afternoon before, daughter-in-law Laura had sent us a text message relating 5-year-old Dominick’s latest eye-opening question — “What’s a turkey coma?”

He was told he would know as soon as he woke up from his nap.

Whether it’s kids or grandkids, good friends or good health, we all have something for which to be thankful.

As humans, we always want more. We never have enough or whatever it is we think we need ... but is that really the case?

We complain of a cold floor on a wintry morning, yet fail to think about those who rise to no floor ... or worse still, no heat.

We complain because the meal we were served at a restaurant wasn’t exactly to our liking, but we fail to think about the youngsters in our very community who go to sleep with the pain of hunger in their little stomachs.

There is no end to the list of things we can find to complain about, yet how often do we stop and think about the many undeserved blessings we receive on a daily basis?

I’ll bet you can think of something you take for granted, can’t you?

We aren’t owed anything in life, yet we seem to think we are — whether it be some benefit by an employer or the government or something by a friend or family member.

I’ve found that through the years, despite what I might have felt at the time, the Lord has provided extremely well for me and mine.

I’ll admit to a period where I was put through a trial of faith and it was tougher than any classroom exam I’ve ever experienced.

I had gotten on a high horse after some success in this business and freely talked about what I had done ... when ALL I had done was use the talents and abilities the Lord had given me and take advantage of the talented people He had placed around me to accomplish a goal.

Instead of giving thanks and acknowledgement, I laid claim and the Lord gave me the opportunity to learn the lesson of humility.

Today, I’m thankful for that lesson, as harsh as it was, for I believe I’m a better person because of one more gift given me by my Lord.

What do you have for which to be thankful?

How long has it been since you’ve gone to the Lord and given thanks for the many blessings you and yours have received?

You don’t have to wait until you go to church or to bed to go to the Lord in prayer. I find some of my best talks with Him come as Bridget and I go on one of our daily walks ... as He greets us with the rising sun in the morning and guides us by the light of the moon and twinkling stars at night.

It’s on those days when I find the lyrics of that old, Southern gospel hymn have it oh, so right: “Just a little talk with Jesus makes it right.”

And with that, I’ll ask again, “What do you have for which to be thankful?”

From our house to your house, Stephanie, Bridget and I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving.

(John H. Walker is editor and publisher of The Daily Southerner. He can be reached at 823-3106 or